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Alright I’m back y’all! The next few episodes are going to be a series on kink and the ethics around indulging in more “taboo” fantasies. Part one is an intro to consent and kink: what it is, what it is NOT and dispelling some common myths and misconceptions. With kink and BDM being the “trendy” […]

This episode is about my ethics as a cam girl and a sex worker. The adult entertainment industry has a reputation for being exploitative and a destructive force in people’s lives. As an adult entertainer, I wanted to give my perspective on the industry and what I think the pro’s and con’s are. Every system […]

This episode is about the connection between identity and integrity. The more I talk about ethics, the more I understand what my goals are. My goal for this podcast isn’t to tell people what to do, but to encourage everyone toward greater self reflection. There is no “one size fits all” set of ethics that […]

This episode is about my relationship with anger and how it has shaped my experiences and how I relate to others

Not everything that is broken can be fixed…

What does it actually mean to get your shit together? This is what it looks like for me.

This is just my story…

What do we do when someone we love is hurting us? How do we prevent it from happening again? Why is it so hard?    *Please seek professional support if you or someone you know is in an abusive situation. You can’t do it alone and you don’t have to.